When parents begin dating dating again after celibacy
We get stuck there, too, forever the child, the victim, the have-not in the realm of love.
Strange as it may seem, a grudge is a kind of clinging, a way of not separating, and when we hold a grudge against a parent, we are clinging not just to the parent, but more specifically to the bad part of the parent.
Searching for love shouldn't just be about the number of people you meet.
Like most things in life, it's quality, not quantity that's important.