Pre op mtf dating
Twelve months ago in a cold operating room, lying on an even colder surgery table, I was preparing to go to bed and wake up to the answer to the wish I had begged for every night for the last 18 years.
There is a special class of woman out there, with a different set of attributes than the "genetic girl," or GG. Her look, her voice, her movement, her laugh, her smile, her scent, and all those other feminine cues that trigger interest and a masculine response from a guy. Therefore, if a straight man finds himself interested in a pre-op transsexual and is experiencing some confusion as a result, then he needs to consider exactly what it is about her that is attracting him. A TS who hangs out online gets a million instant messages and emails about sexual encounters.I lay there thinking, “They better put me out good!” I was convinced that I was so excited about the coming reality of waking up to a brighter future that the anesthesia wouldn’t work.Almost universally, the response was, "Yes, I am aware you're post-op, and I find that attractive." At that point, because of what I had been told over the past five years, I wanted to know why they are interested in post-ops.
I told them that I had been led to believe that few men would be interested in dating a post-op TS. They said that a post-op still has the best of both worlds. But now I have come to realize it doesn't necessarily mean that, but it can also mean combining the very feminine attributes of the transsexual with some of the attractive attributes of the male.People looking for friendships and pen pal relationships may want to check out these options first.