Online dating going too fast
Signs you need to take it slow in love and slam on the brakes Think you might be going too fast?Use these signs to determine whether your relationship is in need of a chill pill. Are you putting your partner up on a pedestal, when you barely know anything about them? Maybe you need to get to know a little more about them before you decide they should be seated at the right hand of God! It’s a scary moment in any relationship, but if you or they are meeting the parents only weeks into the relationship, then something is assuredly amiss.Although I am sure not all-inclusive, here are some thoughts that I believe one should consider as they entertain long distance relationships. Do long distance relationships grow into beautiful stories of love and happy ever after? I just encourage you to not ‘assume’ that because someone is responding to you and likes many of the same things you do (or so it appears) that they are the ‘soulmate’ for you. God’s Spirit is the best guide through this process.Each of you should be genuinely seeking Him – separately and together. Allow me to provide some further counsel from my experience and in relating to many Christian singles.Especially for those in recovery, there are dangers in giving in to this kind of romantic urgency. One of the first clues that you (or your romantic partner) are rushing things is that you spend excessive amounts of time together too soon.
When I am dating, I like to really take my time and get to know someone before I put any “name” on what we’re doing.
What I don’t understand is why they get so obsessive.