As scary as it seems, you’re not actually destined to end up settling on someone who isn’t what you ultimately want, nor will you end up alone entirely.That perfect guy for you will cross your path eventually. Having a guy to love isn’t your sole purpose in life. You’re sick of meeting morons who are only in it for themselves. If you weren’t, you wouldn’t have survived the liars, players, and losers of your past.Isn’t it just better to hang out in the produce aisle and ask women how to tell if a cantaloupe is ripe?At least then you’re pretty much guaranteed to get some kind of response, right? A full third of guys who try online dating sites and apps never go on a single date, and that’s despite spending 5.2 hours a week looking at profiles, then another 6.7 hours sending out messages. And she sure as hell knows you don't care what kind of modeling she does. They lack social awareness, a trait crucial for showing you're a competent guy who has his life together. She doesn't care that you happen to have a friend from Chicago, a city with a population of 3 million.
You want the life you’re living to be an amazing one and your time here is too short to waste on spending it with a jerk.Sometimes you need to take a step back from the modern dating culture to gain some perspective and gather your bearings. There’s more to your life than having a guy, so try to check yourself before you get caught up in the cycle of playing leap frog with jerks. Use the time you have in the absence of love to kill it in your life in other ways. You’re meant for so much more than just being some guy’s wife someday.