Dating after the first date
Luckily, I'm here to help you deconstruct some of the types of texts guys like me send after first dates/first hangouts/first fucks – whatever you want to call them. Create the pipeline, follow up email/call/text, have your lower quality leads at the bottom and target top quality.
Don't know what his biting sarcasm means or why he's acting so ambivalent? The examples below are texts I've sent in various situations, what I meant by them and what they meant for myself and the woman in question going forward: When I said it: that same night. I've been thinking about fucking you since the minute you walked up the stairs, and yes, I know it's been less than 24 hours since then. What it meant: I'll be very generic when I'm not sure how the date went or when I know I did something wrong. I know we didn't exactly hit it off, but I know it wasn't so bad either. Some leads will die; some will chill in your pipe; some will get qualified. You send this text when you aren't sure what kind of lead she's going to be.” When I said it: two days later.
You have clearly expressed you would like to meet up again. Often after a great first date I can be quick to attach myself to that person for oh, well the rest of my life.
Let’s talk about your next date, or better yet four minutes prior to the conclusion of your next date.
Ezell continued, "Dating is as much a sales game as anything." His take on post-date texting is that "too much communication from one party can be intimidating." Meanwhile, April Davis, relationship expert, certified life coach, and CEO of LUMA Luxury Matchmaking, reminded us that "texting causes a lot of miscommunication and misunderstandings because it is hard to read or interpret emotion through text." Yikes!
And no, you are not the only one with anxiety over what texts to send after an initial date.