5 dating tips for shy guys
Once I thought of it that way, I was a lot less anxious and worried about being likable." —mrctheamazing "As an introvert, you will never find 'the one' if you think that is defined by instantly feeling comfortable with someone.
Dating advice is outside the scope of this site, with this article being a semi-exception.
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"I prefer to go to a place I knew or had been to before.
As with all the other writing on this site, the points here are from a mix of my own experience and accounts I've come across of how shy guys say they think.
I also wrote a follow up to this article on some of the unique issues shy women struggle with.
Over the years several women have written me to tell me reading this site has helped them understand the actions of a shy guy they were pursuing.
No pressure." —mechteldho "One of the best pieces of advice I've ever gotten (from another introvert who was great at meeting/picking up people) was to treat the stranger like you've known them a long time but haven't seen them in a while.
I’d see naturally extroverted people easily bouncing around at bars and pubs, meeting new people and saying hi to their many friends, and feel overwhelmed with feelings of envy and shame that I just “wasn’t like that.” Years later, I must have looked like a cartoon character when I read Dale Carnegie’s for the first time – I could practically feel the light bulb springing to life above my head and illuminating me.
Among the many things that book illuminated for me, the most fundamental was this: people skills are just that – skills.
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I'll break this down further below, but their central problem is that they're just really anxious, scared, and inhibited around women.